I’m sitting on my bed, with a headlamp on, go ahead, laugh it up….. It’s pretty funny looking actually, but now I don’t have to get out of bed to turn off the light, so there! Except now I can see the bugs and mosquitoes that are flying/crawling through my mosquito net biting me and giving me the chills. Lovely.
So I just finished dinner. Good meal indeed. But before then, I went to my new best friend in India’s house. So a little background on this guy, he’s 19, speaks very broken English has polio, walks with a leg brace that drags his right leg behind him when he walks. He always smiles from ear to ear and waves at me. He always says gooouudddmorreeeniingggg to me. I can’t help but chuckle a little every time. He works for father Paul as an assistant working with documents or something. He also runs errands of the small nature. So anyways he invites me to his place to just hang out with him. So we walk, not more than 2 blocks of back alleys and we get there. His room is no more than a 6 by 8 room, with 1 window and a few shelves. He sleeps on the floor with a pillow and a blanket. He has a few changes of clothes hanging on a clothes line. He literally has almost nothing. But you would never know it by talking to the guy. So we went up to the roof and there was sweet looking younger lady cooking dinner on a small rocket stove, burning fire wood. It smelt nice. And these few little boys came over to me and examined me like I was an alien specimen. Well justifiably so, I guess. I am an alien to them, so all is fair. I said hi and wave and they started yammering in Hindi. I smiled and shook my head, ‘engleze’ more yammering. Anon laughs and says he thinks you are speaking crazy, he can’t speak English, only Hindi…. So I’m trying to learn a little Hindi… I know the word for stairs, ‘CD’, lol I don’t know how it’s spelled. I know the word for cap or hat, top’e. I know the phrase for I’m just watching. ‘Dekrah issah’ phonetic spelling of course. So I tried to learn how to say my name is Tim…. Tomorrah nomahrklay Tim Hartnett. The boy looked at me. yammered. Anon said he thought u dint know Hindi… so the kid went on for a good 30 sec in super fast Hindi and I started laughing. He looked at me like I insulted him… ‘No Hindi, engleze’ …. Yammer…… so the night went on he had a friend buy us a beer each, I gave the kid money. 75 Rs each, like 2 bucks for liter beers. So were talking kinda just looking at the people preparing for dinner. And he starts to tell me his dreams and goals and aspirations. He made me promise not to tell anyone, so I really can’t. But basically he wanted to make it. More than anything he wanted to be successful. He kept repeating ‘keep growing; keep growing I just have to keep growing. I taught him the ‘one day at a time’ message he like that too… keep growing. ‘Timm, you help me. You help!’ I couldn’t help but smile and promise id try. I don’t know what yet, but this is the first time since I’ve been here I’ve seen the single person. The individual. As I lay in bed now I’m very happy. Very very happy.
We drive down the road and see poverty. We see destruction, abuse, neglect. So much wrong. I saw today young boys working in the sewers, I had to look away and cover my mouth with my handkerchief to help hold down my morning eggs. Not more than .5 km away a girl age maybe 4? Was digging in the trash, digging, with a bag on her bag full of rope and string… she was barefoot. Dirty, clothes tattered, maybe homeless? You see this and you think, wow India is really in a rotten situation. Trash everywhere. People everywhere. Animals everywhere.
Ill admit I’ve never been one to be big on the whole recycling thing or going out of my way to help the big picture… if its convenient, sure, I’ll throw my bottle in the blue bin instead of the brown garbage can, no problem. But going the extra little bit and concisely making my small difference. There s an impact, tho small, there is an change for the better. The point I’m making is, yes he is just one person. People are going to continue to suffer in India. People will continue cleaning sewers and picking for rags, but you affect one person, one person at a time. And you’ve changed their life. It’s a write off to us and our luxiourous life. But to them it’s their ticket out. It’s their boiling point, it’s their final push for the snowball effect to start the momentum of enabling themselves to pull out of the situation and become prosperous.
I am glad for tonight. It wasn’t a huge ordeal, but it was enough, enough to show me how someone surviving on barely 100 dollars a month care makes it. It called hope.
I finish today’s blog with this. I miss my home. I’m certainly not ready to come back yet, but I miss the people I love and the people that love me. This is probably the first time in years I’ve missed home like this. It nights like tonight you reflect on the blessings you have and how easily it is to overlook certain things.
Thanks for the emails and continued support. Peace, love, and spicy curry,
-tim
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